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SKO is Not Enough: Michelle Afshar's playbook for designing an impactful sales kickoff

By
Elle Morgan
December 15, 2025
Published:
December 15, 2025
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Key Takeaways

SKO is not enough. Consistent execution requires reinforcement, not just an event.

  • SKO sets direction, but transformation happens in the weeks that follow
  • Reps need reinforcement, real-world application, and leadership follow-through for anything to stick
  • A structured reinforcement plan is the difference between forgotten content and consistent field behavior
  • Executive engagement and coaching can accelerate outcomes and build lasting momentum
  • Small changes made now can dramatically improve 2026 SKO performance

Sales kickoff has always carried a certain promise.

For a few days, everyone is together. Language aligns. Priorities feel clear. Leaders speak with conviction about where the business is headed and why this year matters. Sellers leave believing the work ahead will look different from the work behind them.

Then Monday comes.

Calendars refill. Deals reappear mid-stream. Someone asks where the slides live. A manager postpones a coaching conversation because the quarter is already loud. By the end of the week, most teams are operating exactly as they were before kickoff, only with better memories and a new hoodie.

has watched this pattern repeat across companies, industries, and stages of growth. She’s been a seller in those chairs. She’s planned SKOs as an enablement leader. She’s stood on stage introducing new plays, new messaging, new expectations. Today, she’s the Global Head of Enablement at Darktrace, after leading enablement at Zoom, Palo Alto Networks, and other organizations where selling is complex and the margin for error is thin.

Over decades, she’s seen SKOs that were beautifully executed and quietly ineffective, and others that changed behavior long after the event ended.

Her conclusion is that kickoff rarely fails because teams don’t care but because it's treated as an event instead of a system. We sat down with Michelle for a webinar where she shares this system and more insights from her years of experience building impactful sales kickoffs.

Keep reading for the highlights or catch the full webinar here.

What changed, even if we didn’t notice

There was a time when sales kickoff could reasonably carry a year’s worth of direction.

Product launches were slower. Messaging evolved at a manageable pace. Sellers had room to absorb what they learned before the next change arrived. Kickoff functioned as a reset that held.

That world no longer exists.

Today, sellers operate inside continuous motion. Messaging updates stack. Product changes arrive mid-quarter. Competitive context shifts without warning. The distance between learning something new and needing to use it has collapsed. This is the new normal all revenue teams live in today.

Humans don’t change how they operate because they were inspired once. They change when the question they need answered or skill set they practiced in SKO comes up again later, in context, when it’s relevant and when the environment around them requires that change.

That insight reshapes how every sales kickoff should be designed.

Why the Monday after SKO is the real test

Enablement leaders often measure kickoff by how it feels in the room. Energy. Engagement. Alignment. Michelle measures it by what happens when the room empties.

What do sellers reach for when they’re back in live deals?

What language shows up in pipeline reviews?

What questions managers ask in one-on-ones three weeks later?

Those signals matter more than applause because they reveal whether kickoff changed behavior or simply created momentum without direction. Michelle plans for those moments deliberately. She assumes memory will fade. She assumes work will reclaim attention. She designs for that reality instead of fighting it.

That's the foundation of her playbook.

The three forces that make reinforcement work

Over years of iteration, Michelle has found that post-kickoff behavior change consistently depends on three forces working together: reinforcement, application, and follow-through.

These are the conditions you need to design your entire SKO playbook around.

Reinforcement: helping ideas reappear when they matter

Reinforcement isn't sending a lengthy post-event recap. It’s helping the training, playbooks, and methodologies that you introduced re-enter a seller’s workflow at the moment they need it.

That might be a short story about a peer who applied a concept and saw progress. It might be a nudge that surfaces during deal prep. It might be a manager casually referencing a shared language during a coaching conversation.

The form varies but the intent stays consistent.

Reinforcement works when it respects how people actually operate under pressure. Sellers don’t go searching for learning. They respond to what shows up while they’re already working.

Michelle plans reinforcement as a series in different formats. Different senders. Different timing. Each touchpoint small enough to be absorbed, but intentional enough to be remembered.

The goal is familiarity versus compliance.

Application: creating space to practice after reality sets in

Kickoff often creates agreement before it creates confidence.

Sellers understand the direction. They still hesitate when it’s time to apply it. That hesitation is less resistance and more uncertainty.

Michelle builds application into the weeks following kickoff. She waits until sellers have had enough real exposure to know where they struggle. Then she brings them back together to work through those moments directly.

Practice, in this context, isn't role-playing but real deals, real objections, real constraints. It’s using the new language when the stakes feel familiar.

This timing matters. Too early and practice feels abstract. Too late and it feels optional. Application is where ideas stop being theoretical and start becoming usable.

Follow-through: where leadership quietly decides what sticks

Enablement can design the system but rarely can it enforce behavior change alone.

Michelle is clear that sustained change must come from the frontline leaders.

Managers control the weekly rhythm. They decide what gets revisited, what gets coached, what becomes habit. If a concept never appears in a one-on-one, it rarely survives.

Michelle removes ambiguity from this relationship by equipping managers directly with clear agendas, clear answers, clear expectations, and clear guidance on what will happen after kickoff.

This is about making reinforcement part of leadership because when managers have clarity, enablement gains leverage.

Planning your SKO? Grab the companion guide.

If you’re already thinking about how to apply this to your own SKO planning, we put together a practical companion to this post.

The 6 Ingredients of a Successful SKO breaks down what needs to be in place before, during, and after kickoff to drive real adoption and field behavior. It’s designed to help you pressure-test your plans and spot the gaps early.

The 14 Week Post-SKO Reinforcement Plan

What all of this adds up to is a simple shift in how kickoff is treated.

For Michelle, kickoff marks the opening of a longer arc. The event sets direction but the work that follows determines whether that direction holds.

Over time, she stopped answering post-SKO questions with one-off answers and started answering them with a playbook. A rough map of what needs to happen after the room clears and the work resumes because teams need structure and guidance once the noise returns.

That map eventually became a 14-week post-SKO reinforcement plan.

Fourteen weeks reflects how long it often takes for new behaviors to feel familiar inside real work. Long enough for sellers to encounter friction. Long enough for managers to coach through it. Long enough for ideas to resurface when they actually matter.

The early weeks focus on orientation and reinforcement. Helping teams reconnect with what they heard while the context is still nearby. Making it easy to re-enter the material without hunting. Keeping the signal clear without asking for heavy lift.

The middle stretch creates room for application. By then, sellers have enough real experience to know where confidence dips. Practice feels grounded because it responds to lived situations, not anticipation.

Later weeks bring leadership more fully into the rhythm. Shared language shows up in coaching. Reinforcement becomes part of how work gets done, not something layered on top.

Not every team will run fourteen weeks. Some will start with six. Some will adapt it for a virtual kickoff or a mid-year reset. What matters is less about the length and more about the intention to design beyond the event.

Michelle was gracious enough to share an example of her plan so that enablement and revenue leaders can use it as a starting point. You can view and download this below.

Kickoff will always be an memorable experience and those deeper connection moments that teams remember but true success depends on what happens after. To learn more about how to maximize post-SKO reinforcement, chat with a member of our team.

FAQs

Why doesn’t sales kickoff usually change seller behavior?

Sales kickoff often creates alignment and motivation, but behavior change requires reinforcement after the event. Once sellers return to live deals, urgency takes over, memory fades, and old habits resurface. Without a system for reinforcement, application, and leadership follow-through, even strong SKOs lose impact.

What actually makes sales kickoff stick after the event?

Sales kickoff sticks when teams design for what happens after the room clears. Based on Michelle Afshar’s experience, three forces drive lasting impact: reinforcement that shows up in the flow of work, intentional application once sellers face real situations, and consistent leadership follow-through through coaching and management cadence.

What is intentional application in sales enablement?

Intentional application means giving sellers time to return to real work, experience uncertainty, and then creating structured opportunities to practice. Instead of forcing immediate role-play, enablement waits until sellers have enough context to know where confidence dips, making practice relevant and usable.

How long does post-SKO reinforcement really take?

Meaningful behavior change often takes weeks, not days. Michelle Afshar uses a 14-week post-SKO reinforcement plan because it allows time for sellers to encounter friction, for managers to coach through it, and for ideas to resurface naturally inside real deals. Teams can adapt this timeline, but the sequence matters.

What role do managers play in reinforcing sales kickoff?

Frontline managers play the deciding role in whether SKO concepts stick. They control weekly coaching, deal reviews, and one-on-one conversations. When managers are given clear expectations, agendas, and language to use, reinforcement becomes part of normal work instead of an extra task.

Still have questions? Let's chat!

About the author

Elle Morgan
Director, Content & Communications
Elle is a boy momma 2x, brand builder, storyteller, growth hacker, and marketing leader with 12+ years of experience scaling SaaS B2B organizations.

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